Easter 6A-26
Immanuel Lutheran, Chicago
Anne of Green Gables. Harry Potter. Peter Parker. Bruce Wayne. Bambi. Snow White. Cinderella. Mowgli. Elsa and Alladin. What do all these famous characters have in common? They’re all beloved. They’re all brave. They’re all orphans. Big media knows how to pull on our heart strings. We immediately connect with these character’s desperate need to know that they belong. When we are infants, we need other people to survive. Care for one another is what allows us to survive and thrive as a species.
On the night of the Passover meal before the crucifixion, as he spoke to the disciples of his coming absence, Jesus words must have been both perplexing and deeply reassuring. He told them, “I will not leave you orphaned; I am coming to you.” (John 14:15). We are family. We belong to one another. We are never alone. Each of us are always and forever cherished and loved.
This Thursday May 14, Christians mark the Ascension, the story of the risen Christ leaving this world for full union with God. Today’s reading is the conclusion to a long farewell message reminding the disciples that what they experienced with Jesus is trustworthy and true — God is with them, they have seen God, and God loves them.
That’s the message John’s gospel intends for us to hear. Yet, sometimes, modern readers get tripped up by that little word, “if.” “If you love me,” Jesus said, “you will keep my commandments… They who have my commandments and keep them are those who love me; and those who love me will be loved by my father, and I will love them and reveal myself to them” (John 14:15 & 21). Love and obedience. According to Jesus, the two are inseparable. We can’t honestly claim to love Jesus if we don’t obey him. And we’re like, ‘Wait a minute! Is that a threat? Is God’s love conditional? God is a bully who extorts obedience by threatening to withhold his love? We’re like little Orphan Annie waiting to be plucked from the orphanage by Daddy Warbucks but only if we’re good enough?’
We have been conditioned by so much bad religion and by mean religious authorities that it doesn’t take much to undo the promises generously offered here in Jesus’ words. So, first, it’s important to notice, Jesus doesn’t say, if you keep the commands, God will love you. Nope. “It is the reverse — If you love God, you will keep the commandments to love God and neighbor…It is only conditional on US! If we fail to keep the commandments — rebelliously, consistently, willingly, making the choice to constrain love and harm our neighbors — that is evidence that we don’t love Jesus. We can turn our backs on community and reject this way of love.” (Diana Butler-Bass, “If-Then and the Grammar of Spirituality,” Sunday Musings, May 9, 2026)
“What exactly has Jesus commanded us to do? Well, in the chapter directly preceding our lectionary reading, John gives us the answer: “A new command I give you,” Jesus says. “Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” In fact, this commandment — Jesus’s “Maundy Thursday” mandate that his disciples love one another — is the only recorded commandment in John’s Gospel. Everything else we say and do as believers in Christ comes down to this. Prayer, evangelism, repentance, generosity, asking, seeking, alms-giving, truth-telling, honoring, serving, feeding, sharing… all of it, in the end, comes down to love. The essential question, the searing question, is this: Do we love one another as Jesus has loved us? Or do we not? (Debi Thomas, “Love and Obedience,” Journey with Jesus, 5/10/20)
Whether or not we choose to reside in the orphanage is up to us. “Loving Jesus means loving God and loving our neighbors. Period. Loving God and loving our neighbors is the very definition of following Jesus. That’s it…That’s the whole point of the Easter story — love. If you love Jesus, you will love God and your neighbor as yourself…This is the way, the truth, and the life — the way of love. That’s the Easter promise. (Butler Bass)
If I am being honest with myself, it’s not hard to name why I fail to obey Jesus’ dying wish. Love makes me vulnerable and I’d rather not be vulnerable. Love requires trust, and I don’t want to be a sucker. Love spills over margins and boundaries. Love involves me in chaotic situations. I feel safer, less stressed, and holier policing my borders. “Love takes time, effort, discipline, and transformation, and I am just so darned busy” (Thomas).
But Jesus didn’t say, “This is my suggestion.” He said, “This is my commandment.” Meaning, it’s not a choice. It’s not a matter of personal preference; it’s a matter of obedience to the one we call our Lord. (Thomas)
“In one sense, our instincts are correct; authentic love can’t be manipulated, simulated, or rushed without suffering distortion. Those of us who have children understand full well that “commanding” our bickering kids to love each other doesn’t work. The most we can do is insist that our children behave as if they love each other: “Share your toys.” “Say sorry.” “Don’t hit.” “Use kind words.”” (Thomas)
“But these actions — often performed with gritted teeth and rolling eyes — aren’t the same as what Jesus is talking about in John’s Gospel. Jesus doesn’t stop at saying, “Act as if you love.” He doesn’t give his disciples (or us) the easy “out” of doing nice things with clenched or indifferent hearts. (Nor would I want him to; nothing feels as hollow as a “loving” act performed mechanically. Moreover, I doubt that the people who flocked to Jesus would have done so if they sensed that his compassion was thin or forced.) He says, “Love one another as I have loved you.” As in, for real. As in, the whole bona fide package. Authentic feeling, honest engagement, generous action.”
(Thomas)
All this would be impossible for me but for the gift of God’s presence. John’s gospel has taught us to look for God, not up there, but out in front. God is leading, suggesting, prompting, reframing, inspiring, and transforming. “The Advocate is God’s own Spirit, God’s own heart, living within us. This Spirit, Jesus promises us, will be in us, making possible the startling, counter-intuitive obedience which is love. This Spirit will abide within and among us, creating holy places where authentic, self-sacrificial human love can take root and flourish. The Spirit’s resources are inexhaustible. Long after our natural stores are depleted, the Spirit of God will love in, among, and through us.” (Thomas)
As is so often the case in our lives as Christians, Jesus’s commandment leads us straight to paradox: we are called to action via rest. Called to give the love we receive. Called to become the beloved children we are. The commandment — or better yet, the invitation — is to drink our fill of the Source, spill over to bless the world, and then return to the Source for a fresh in-filling. This is our movement, our rhythm, our dance. Over and over again. This is where we begin and end and begin again.” (Thomas)
Love me by keeping my commandments, Jesus says. These are finally not two separate actions. They are one and the same. We love because we are loved. We obey Christ because we are in Christ.” We are not orphans. “The love we are commanded to share is the love we are endlessly given. “You in me, and I in you.” The definition of love.” (Thomas)







